The Problem With Cookie-Cutter IEP Goals
Every year, millions of IEP goals get copy-pasted from goal banks just like this one. The school fills in your child's name, slaps on "80% accuracy in 4 out of 5 trials," and calls it individualized. It's not.
Under IDEA §300.320(a)(2), every goal must be based on your child's present levels of academic achievement and functional performance — their unique strengths, their specific barriers, their actual evaluation data. Not a template.
"I've sat at over 500 IEP tables."
I'm Mary, a Special Education Advocate and the founder of The Advocate Ally. I created this goal bank because I was tired of seeing parents bullied into accepting generic, "cookie-cutter" IEPs.
The goals below aren't just random suggestions—they are the exact same forensically sound goals I fight for in meetings every day. Use them to demand better for your child.
Mary
Founder, The Advocate Ally
How Autism Spectrum Disorder Affects Executive Function at the Upper Elementary (3rd–5th Grade) Level
Third through fifth grade marks a critical shift: students move from 'learning to read' to 'reading to learn,' and academic demands increase sharply. Students with disabilities often hit a 'wall' during these years as the gap between their abilities and grade-level expectations widens. IEP goals should bridge this gap with explicit instruction in strategies — not just content.
The Specific Barrier
Executive function deficits are among the most significant academic barriers for students with autism. They may struggle with task initiation, transitioning between activities, organizing materials, managing time, and adapting when routines change unexpectedly.
Building on Your Child's Strengths
Students with ASD often thrive with visual schedules, predictable routines, and explicit step-by-step instruction. The key is building systems the student can eventually use independently — not creating dependency on adult prompting.
What Goals Should Actually Address
Independent use of visual schedules and checklists, transitioning between activities with decreasing adult support, and self-monitoring task completion using structured tools.
⚡ But here's the thing: The information above is general. Your child isn't a category — they're an individual with specific evaluation data, specific classroom challenges, and specific strengths that no goal bank can capture. That's why we built a tool that analyzes your child's actual IEP.
Get your child's IEP reviewed freeRed Flags: Your Child's Executive Function Goals May Be Generic If...
The goal says "80% accuracy in 4 out of 5 trials"
This is the #1 sign of a copy-paste goal. Real criteria should match your child's baseline data, not a boilerplate number.
✕Removing accommodations because the child 'seems to be doing okay' — without data showing mastery without them
💬 What to say in the meeting:
"Say: 'Before removing this accommodation, I need to see data showing my child can perform at the same level without it. Can we do a trial period with data collection before making this permanent?'"
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Run a free audit✕Goals focused only on compliance rather than skill building
💬 What to say in the meeting:
"Ask: 'This goal measures whether my child follows directions — but what skill is being taught? I'd like goals that build academic and functional capabilities, not just obedience.'"
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Run a free audit✕No progress monitoring data between annual reviews — this means nobody is tracking whether the IEP is working
💬 What to say in the meeting:
"Say: 'I'd like to see the progress monitoring data collected since the last IEP meeting. If there's no data, how do we know if these interventions are working?'"
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Run a free audit✕The school suggests your child 'only needs a 504' without providing data that specialized instruction is no longer necessary
💬 What to say in the meeting:
"Say: 'I need to see the evaluation data demonstrating my child no longer needs specialized instruction. A 504 removes the right to specially designed instruction — I'm not comfortable with that change without evidence.'"
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Run a free auditAdvocate Tip for Upper Elementary (3rd–5th Grade) Parents
This is when many schools start pushing for less support. They may claim your child 'is doing fine' based on passing grades while ignoring that they're only passing because of accommodations they want to remove. Growth must be measured against grade-level standards, not against lowered expectations.
What Executive Function Goal Patterns Look Like at This Level
These are example patterns to help you understand what the school should be writing — not goals to copy. Your child's goals must be built from their evaluation data.
⚠️ These are not your child's goals. Every child with Autism Spectrum Disorder is different. A goal that's right for one 3rd Grade student may be completely wrong for another. Use these to understand the structure of a good goal — then make sure your child's IEP team writes goals tied to their specific present levels.
- Example Pattern 1
Use a planner or assignment notebook to record daily homework for all subjects without teacher prompting
What a school might write: "The student will use a planner or assignment notebook to record daily homework for all subjects without teacher prompting with 80% accuracy in 4/5 trials."
What your advocate should ask: "What's the baseline? Where is use a planner documented in the present levels? How was 80% chosen as the target?"
- Example Pattern 2
Break a multi-step assignment into at least three sub-tasks and complete them across multiple work sessions
What a school might write: "The student will break a multi-step assignment into at least three sub-tasks and complete them across multiple work sessions with 80% accuracy in 4/5 trials."
What your advocate should ask: "What's the baseline? Where is break a multi-step documented in the present levels? How was 80% chosen as the target?"
- Example Pattern 3
Estimate how long an assignment will take and compare the estimate to actual time, adjusting future estimates based on the data
What a school might write: "The student will estimate how long an assignment will take and compare the estimate to actual time, adjusting future estimates based on the data with 80% accuracy in 4/5 trials."
What your advocate should ask: "What's the baseline? Where is estimate how long documented in the present levels? How was 80% chosen as the target?"
- Example Pattern 4
Independently gather all materials needed for a project before beginning work
What a school might write: "The student will independently gather all materials needed for a project before beginning work with 80% accuracy in 4/5 trials."
What your advocate should ask: "What's the baseline? Where is independently gather all documented in the present levels? How was 80% chosen as the target?"
- Example Pattern 5
Transition between classroom activities within 90 seconds without verbal reminders
What a school might write: "The student will transition between classroom activities within 90 seconds without verbal reminders with 80% accuracy in 4/5 trials."
What your advocate should ask: "What's the baseline? Where is transition between classroom documented in the present levels? How was 80% chosen as the target?"
5 more goal patterns are available for this combination. But remember — the right number of goals for your child depends on their evaluation, not on how many a goal bank lists.
Show More Goal Patterns
- Pattern 6
Use a self-monitoring checklist to verify that written work is complete before submission (name, date, all questions answered)
- Pattern 7
Organize a desk, locker, or backpack weekly so that needed items can be located within 30 seconds
- Pattern 8
Prioritize two or more tasks by identifying which is due first and starting with that task
- Pattern 9
Resist the impulse to call out during instruction by using a designated signal (raising hand, writing thought on sticky note) in 4 out of 5 opportunities
- Pattern 10
Independently return to a task after a brief interruption without needing redirection
The Real Question Isn't "What Goals Should I Copy?"
It's: "Are the goals already in my child's IEP actually individualized — or did the school copy them from a bank just like this one?"
I check every goal in your child's IEP against federal standards. I catch the copy-paste goals, the missing present levels, the goals with no real criteria — all the things a goal bank can't tell you.
Audit Your Child's IEP — FreeAccommodations to Discuss With Your IEP Team
These are commonly considered for students with Autism Spectrum Disorder. Like goals, accommodations must be individualized — not selected from a checklist.
Visual schedules and task checklists
💬 How to request this in the meeting:
"I'd like the IEP to include a visual schedule that's reviewed with my child at the start of each day, and a task checklist for multi-step assignments. Can we specify who will prepare these and how they'll be updated?"
🛡️ If the school pushes back:
Visual supports are an evidence-based practice endorsed by the National Professional Development Center on ASD. If the school says they 'don't have time' to create them, ask for that refusal in a Prior Written Notice (PWN).
Sensory breaks tailored to individual needs
💬 How to request this in the meeting:
"My child needs scheduled sensory breaks — not just after a meltdown has already started. Can we include 10-minute breaks every 45 minutes, with access to a sensory kit, as a proactive accommodation?"
🛡️ If the school pushes back:
If the school only offers reactive breaks (after crisis), point out that proactive sensory breaks are recommended by AOTA and reduce overall disruption. Request an Occupational Therapy evaluation if one hasn't been done.
Preferential seating away from sensory distractions
💬 How to request this in the meeting:
"Can we specify seating away from the door, windows, and fluorescent light fixtures that flicker? My child's sensory profile shows sensitivity to visual and auditory stimuli."
🛡️ If the school pushes back:
This is a low-cost, no-burden accommodation. If denied, ask: 'What alternative are you proposing to address the documented sensory sensitivities in the evaluation?'
Extended time for processing verbal information
💬 How to request this in the meeting:
"I'm requesting extended processing time — specifically, waiting at least 10 seconds after asking a question before expecting a response, and repeating directions once before assuming non-compliance."
🛡️ If the school pushes back:
Processing speed is a documented deficit in many students with ASD. If the school resists, reference the evaluation data showing processing speed scores.
These scripts are general examples. The most effective meeting language references your child's specific evaluation data and classroom observations. Our action plan generates personalized scripts based on your child's actual IEP.
Get personalized meeting scriptsWhat To Do Right Now
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Pull out your child's current IEP
Find the document the school gave you. Look for the section called 'Measurable Annual Goals.'
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Find the Executive Function goals
Look for goals that specifically address executive function. Does the goal reference YOUR child's evaluation data?
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Check for baseline data
Every goal must state where your child IS right now. If there's no number or specific skill level, the goal can't be measured.
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Look for red flags
Compare the goals to the red flags listed above. If you see '80% accuracy in 4 out of 5 trials' or goals that sound like they could apply to any student, flag it.
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