
"I've sat at over 500 IEP tables."
I'm Mary, a Special Education Advocate and the founder of The Advocate Ally. I created this goal bank because I was tired of seeing parents bullied into accepting generic, "cookie-cutter" IEPs.
The goals below aren't just random suggestions—they are the exact same forensically sound goals I fight for in meetings every day. Use them to demand better for your child.
Mary
Founder, The Advocate Ally
What's Happening
You've noticed your child loses skills over school breaks and takes weeks to recover when school resumes. You asked for Extended School Year (ESY) services, but the school denied them.
Your Legal Rights
ESY is not optional or discretionary—if a child's regression over breaks is significant and recovery time is prolonged, the school must provide ESY services under IDEA.
- ESY must be considered for every IEP student at their annual review.
- The IEP team cannot use a blanket policy to deny ESY (e.g., 'we don't offer ESY for that disability').
- You can provide your own data showing regression during breaks.
- If denied, the school must provide a Prior Written Notice (PWN) with their reasoning.
What To Do Right Now
Collect data: track your child's skills before, during, and after school breaks (use checklists, work samples, videos).
Request the school's regression/recoupment data—they should be measuring this already.
If they deny ESY, demand a PWN and ask: 'What objective data did the team use to determine ESY is not needed?'
File a state complaint if the denial lacks data support.
Don't Go Into This Blind
Before you send any letters or file any complaints, let me review the IEP first. I catch problems most parents miss — and I'll show you exactly what to reference in your dispute, with the specific IDEA citations you need.
Frequently Asked Questions
What is ESY?
What counts as 'regression'?
Can a school limit ESY to certain disabilities?
Find the violations before you fight
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