"I've sat at over 500 IEP tables."
I'm Mary, a former special education teacher and administrator, a Special Education Advocate, and co-founder of The Advocate Ally with my son, Graham. I left the system to help families directly. I created this special education resource because too many parents feel pressured to accept generic, "cookie-cutter" IEPs.
The guidance below is grounded in the same practical, document-based questions I raise in IEP meetings every day. Use it to ask for clearer, more individualized support for your child.
Mary
Co-founder, The Advocate Ally
Start with the record, then choose the next step
The school is using RTI, MTSS, tutoring, SST, intervention, or wait-and-see language while you are asking for evaluation in suspected areas of disability.
What to Check
- which suspected disability-related areas need evaluation, what interventions have been tried, what data shows ongoing concern, and whether consent or PWN is missing
- The exact IEP page, school email, meeting note, service log, progress report, or evaluation section tied to the concern.
- Who responded, what they said, and whether the answer was written, verbal, or missing.
Red Flags
- The school gave a verbal answer but the IEP, PWN, progress report, or meeting note does not show the decision.
- The response focuses on opinion, staffing, or habit without naming data, records, or the written IEP section.
- The issue could affect services, placement, discipline, safety, graduation, or evaluation timelines.
Documents to Gather
- the written evaluation request, intervention data, screening results, teacher reports, work samples, attendance, behavior notes, school emails, and any PWN or refusal
- Parent request, intervention reports, work samples, screening scores, teacher emails, report cards, attendance, behavior notes, and any school response.
- A one-page timeline if the same issue has happened more than once.
Sample Finding
The record shows Will the school evaluate the suspected areas now, and if not, what data supports the refusal and where is that response documented?
Parent-Safe Sentence
"Please treat this as my written evaluation request. I understand intervention data can be helpful, but I do not want RTI, MTSS, SST, or tutoring to delay evaluation if the school suspects a disability. Please seek my informed consent for evaluation or provide Prior Written Notice explaining any refusal."
Who to Contact
Start with the case manager or IEP coordinator. If the issue affects services, placement, evaluation, discipline, safety, or complaint options, ask the special education director or a qualified local advocate about next steps.
Privacy Guardrail
Share only the facts and records needed for this request. Avoid sending broad medical history, unnecessary diagnoses, or extra student identifiers unless the school process specifically requires them.
When to Get Local Help
Get qualified local help if the school response could affect discipline, safety, placement, service denial, evaluation rights, missed timelines, retaliation concerns, state complaint, mediation, due process, graduation, or unclear state-specific deadlines.
Source Grounding
- IDEA IEP contents
- IDEA review and revision of IEPs
- IDEA initial evaluations
- IDEA evaluation procedures
- IDEA reevaluation
- IDEA independent educational evaluation
This guide is educational information, not legal advice. Rules and deadlines can vary by state, district, and procedure.
What's Happening
The school is using RTI, MTSS, tutoring, SST, intervention, or wait-and-see language while you are asking for evaluation in suspected areas of disability.
Rights to Review
Start with the written IEP and the written school record. The safest first move is usually to ask the team to confirm what it is doing, what data it used, and what it will put in writing.
- You can ask the school to identify the IEP page, record, or data it is relying on.
- You can put the concern in writing so the team can respond point by point.
- If the school refuses a request, proposes a change, or says no change is needed, ask for the reasoning in writing.
- State timelines and dispute options can vary, so verify local procedural safeguards before escalating.
Build a Calm Written Record
When a school conversation feels urgent, the safest first move is usually a narrow written record: what happened, what you are asking for, and what evidence should be reviewed.
The Calmer First Written Step
Please treat this as my written evaluation request. I understand intervention data can be helpful, but I do not want RTI, MTSS, SST, or tutoring to delay evaluation if the school suspects a disability. Please seek my informed consent for evaluation or provide Prior Written Notice explaining any refusal.
What to Document
- which suspected disability-related areas need evaluation, what interventions have been tried, what data shows ongoing concern, and whether consent or PWN is missing
- The exact IEP page, school email, meeting note, service log, progress report, or evaluation section tied to the concern.
- Who responded, what they said, and whether the answer was written, verbal, or missing.
Evidence to Attach
- the written evaluation request, intervention data, screening results, teacher reports, work samples, attendance, behavior notes, school emails, and any PWN or refusal
- Parent request, intervention reports, work samples, screening scores, teacher emails, report cards, attendance, behavior notes, and any school response.
- A one-page timeline if the same issue has happened more than once.
When to Ask for PWN
Ask for Prior Written Notice if the school says RTI, MTSS, SST, or intervention must continue instead of responding to the evaluation request.
Keep the Request Narrow
- Ask one answerable question before listing every concern.
- Name the IEP section or school record the team should review.
- Ask who is responsible, when the next step starts, and how you will know it happened.
What Not to Say
Avoid: Broad accusations about intent or motive.
Try: Tie the concern to the written IEP, evaluation data, service logs, meeting notes, or a specific school decision.
Avoid: A long history of every frustration in the same email.
Try: Lead with the one decision, service gap, or document section you need the team to address now.
Avoid: The school is breaking the law and must do exactly what I want.
Try: Please treat this as my written evaluation request. I understand intervention data can be helpful, but I do not want RTI, MTSS, SST, or tutoring to delay evaluation if the school suspects a disability. Please seek my informed consent for evaluation or provide Prior Written Notice explaining any refusal.
Make the written request easy to answer
Keep the message short enough that the school can respond point by point. Use this structure before adding personal details.
Please treat this as my written evaluation request. I understand intervention data can be helpful, but I do not want RTI, MTSS, SST, or tutoring to delay evaluation if the school suspects a disability. Please seek my informed consent for evaluation or provide Prior Written Notice explaining any refusal.
which suspected disability-related areas need evaluation, what interventions have been tried, what data shows ongoing concern, and whether consent or PWN is missing
Ask one answerable question before listing every concern.
Ask for Prior Written Notice if the school says RTI, MTSS, SST, or intervention must continue instead of responding to the evaluation request.
Turn the concern into a usable record
A stronger first message usually sounds specific, documented, and answerable. Use this as the shape, then swap in your child's actual dates and IEP pages.
The school says to wait through another reading intervention cycle even though the parent has requested evaluation for reading and writing concerns.
Parent request, intervention reports, work samples, screening scores, teacher emails, report cards, attendance, behavior notes, and any school response.
Will the school evaluate the suspected areas now, and if not, what data supports the refusal and where is that response documented?
What To Do Right Now
Pull the record first: the written evaluation request, intervention data, screening results, teacher reports, work samples, attendance, behavior notes, school emails, and any PWN or refusal
Make a short dated list: which suspected disability-related areas need evaluation, what interventions have been tried, what data shows ongoing concern, and whether consent or PWN is missing
Send this sentence: Please treat this as my written evaluation request. I understand intervention data can be helpful, but I do not want RTI, MTSS, SST, or tutoring to delay evaluation if the school suspects a disability. Please seek my informed consent for evaluation or provide Prior Written Notice explaining any refusal.
Ask for Prior Written Notice if the school says RTI, MTSS, SST, or intervention must continue instead of responding to the evaluation request.
Organize the records before requesting evaluation
Use Review My IEP when an existing plan or intervention record needs to be compared with new concerns.
Review My IEPStart With the Written Record
Before you send a letter or file a complaint, start with the written IEP. The audit can flag documented gaps, weak language, and sections that may deserve a written question or closer professional review.
Frequently Asked Questions
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